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Mon, Jul 26, 2010
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Asian men forced to marry foreigners: study

PARIS - Increasing numbers of southeast Asian men, particularly in Japan, South Korea and Taiwan are marrying foreigners because fewer women in their homelands are willing to wed, a new study said Monday.

The phenomenon, which dates back more than a decade, has even created a detectable trend in women's migration, said the study by Daniele Belanger of the University of Western Ontario University.

"Since the beginning of the 1990s, more and more men in southeast Asia are looking abroad to find a wife," wrote Belanger in the journal of France's National Institute for Demographic Studies (INED).

In Taiwan, 15 percent of wives were of foreign origin in 2009; eight percent in South Korea.

In Japan, the phenomenon started earlier, in the 1980s, but has remained at a modest level: only five or six percent of marriages in the mid-2000s involved foreign wives.

But in all three places, foreign brides represented the largest group of new immigrants apart from the temporary workers, wrote Belanger. And the reason the men went looking abroad was the lack of women at home, she added.

With women's education levels rising so was their representation in the workplace, she explained.

Increasing numbers of them were not willing to settle for the traditional role of a wife -- at least as it exists in its current form. They preferred to keep their jobs and stay single.

For men however, "they have the responsibility to continue the paternal line by giving birth to a son and, in many cases, looking after their aged parents," Belanger wrote.

They could not therefore remain bachelors.

The foreign brides generally came from China and Vietnam, and if at first this kind of marriage was more common among the rural poor, it subsequently spread to the urban middle classes.

There were even marriage agencies specialising in this sector, charging the man's family between 5,000 and 10,000 euros.

Some observers have expressed fears that some of the brides involved are victims of trafficking.

But Belanger noted: "The great majority of migrant women marry of their own accord and not under parental pressure, and their objective is both to marry and to migrate."

 

readers' comments
Women generally marry for love & security - not necessarily in that order but both are prime factors for incentive to settle down. However, its quite true that as std of living rises, so do the expectations for women in general. SO its not surprising to note that women in more developed ctries like S'pore avoid marriage like a the plague if they can help it bec of many factors involved but still its not a healthy situation...
Posted by chieftain on Tue, 27 Jul 2010 at 10:45 AM
Yes, totally agree, women who are so educated these days would not want to wed a man who could hardly afford to feed him and his parent, not to mention wife and kids.

Which lady in her right mind who can be comfortable without burden of marriage and worry about dough would want to marry and get into a situation of worries day in day out.

Chinese saying, lady more capable than men, very tough. Even if the lady don't mind, the parents of lady would be heartache to see their daughter suffer.
Posted by IndignantFemale on Mon, 26 Jul 2010 at 13:43 PM

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