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Post-Valentine's Day secrets men should know
by Skilldo

During the Valentine's Day period, you could be either looking for a girl to get into a serious long-term relationship, or seeking to meet a number of women for casual dates in hope of finding the right one from there.

Regardless of the situation, here's something to think about.

Lots of women in Singapore are also in the same position. In fact, let me share two little secrets.

The emotional stress of Valentine's Day tends to have a greater impact on women, as compared to men.

Women, who are more emotional, can't help but feel affected when they see their married or attached friends having a good time while they're single. They also start to doubt themselves and wonder why they don't have a man in their life.

Women are also aware that there are more females than males in Singapore, which causes them more stress by not having a man in their lives. Most women will not allow their stress to show, but instead, they put on a strong front.

For women, the emotional stress does not end with the passing of Valentine's Day. The stress tends to linger for days after, or even up to a few weeks for some.

It is also during this period that women tend not to play hard-to-get as much as before, and they will be less likely to say "no" to dates. I know this sounds like I'm telling you to "exploit" the vulnerability of women during this time, but the actual focus is on YOU.

During this period, all setbacks that you previously experienced will diminish and you will find it easier to approach women this month.

Go ahead and approach the single women here in Singapore. Take them out on dates and help sooth their emotional stress. Most importantly, enjoy yourself!

Skilldo is an 'ex-unhappy' Singaporean guy - who grew from being lonely, dateless and single... into breaking out of it, and obtained a fulfilling social life in meeting, dating and entering satisfying relationships with women. He is the author of 'The Ultimate Singapore Girl-Getter'. A locally-focused guide for Singapore men to approach, date and successfully attract the type of women they want for themselves. He maintains a website containing secrets and training for men at -

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