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How to know if a guy likes a girl, and vice-versa
by Emily A. Marcelo

Dear Emily,

You say in your columns that if a guy likes a girl, the girl would know it even if she is asleep. Or that, if a guy likes a girl, even if the guy be a priest or a saint, he would still let that girl know that he likes her. Could you be more specific? What are the definite signs that a guy likes a girl? How would a girl know for sure that a guy likes her?


A girl would probably know the guy likes her even in her sleep if the guy has either revealed his feelings to her up front, or he shows overt signs of courtship to her even without the accompanying words to that effect. Or if she herself feels there is a common attraction between them in the first place.

It would take a stone-hearted person or an emotionally challenged man or woman not to read the body language of the person who is interested in him or her. Unless the "pursuant" has a repelling personality, no amount of persuasive body language can break the countenance of the object of his desire.

To two people who are drawn to each other, something magical happens. Call it hormones, call it magnetism, call it corny, but their togetherness becomes electrically charged, so to speak.

How would a girl know if a priest or a saint likes her? Hey, just as other human beings would! They will manifest their attraction to the girl, however forbidden it is! But whether or not they succeed in their venture is the big question. They would call her out of the blue, or perhaps start a silly conversation that is suddenly of utmost importance-anything to be near the person they're interested in. Long story short-ordinary stuff suddenly turns into an important "must do" and "must see" event.

Love is a crazy emotion, in case you've never been wheeled into the world of this dizzying roller-coaster. It will drive you mad, it will hoist you to unimaginable heights of joy or plunge you into valleys of deep despair. Yet, despite the tears and battering of the psyche, and after swearing it off "forever," you get up and find yourself doing it all over again… and again. Much like a broken record!

If the girl feels that something undefinable is brewing even while she's asleep, rest assured she's already emotionally involved, however mystifying it seems. Bet the house on it!

readers' comments

Yu can ignore my da'ge reply.
Treat as he is blowing in the wind.
Posted by igodwhatuwant on Sun, 26 Feb 2012 at 10:48 AM

How about I go to the pitch & kick your ball for 2 half-time???

Surely solved all my problem le.

Do you think it will worked???

Posted by lao.leeky on Fri, 24 Feb 2012 at 22:49 PM

I shall be very honest and say that even humorous or philosophical conversation can be remarkably stimulating.

Add maybe a glass of wine, and both partners may become a little aroused.

Beyond this, any future conversation level is often determined by a closeness achieved through intimate sexual intercourse.

Without testing each other's sexual compatibility under the sheets, there are always "question marks". Having sex relaxes a couple and sets a great foundation for long-term love.

One does not have to be objectifying a woman, or be promiscuous. Love is a "package" which has to be carefully assembled.:)
Posted by Trouser Press on Fri, 24 Feb 2012 at 22:49 PM

CEO - Ms Saw ??? :p:D
Posted by baoxingtian on Fri, 24 Feb 2012 at 22:48 PM

I am quite reluctanted to teach & help you lah.

But, seen like you are so helplessly & lost in love.

I will teach you how to attract all CEO Charbors lah.

Very simple lah

Just act like gigolo and strip in front of them lor.

Guranteed you that those charbors will cancelled other appointment lah.
Posted by lao.leeky on Fri, 24 Feb 2012 at 22:45 PM

well, some women will find it an insult to be treated like a desired sex objects... most women will like to be treated with respect... they would prefer sex to be secondary... :rolleyes:
Posted by dimpleguy on Fri, 24 Feb 2012 at 22:41 PM
only can tell after mated :p:D
Posted by baoxingtian on Fri, 24 Feb 2012 at 22:40 PM

different time calls for different actions... hahaha
so different actions calls for different names. :D
Posted by dimpleguy on Fri, 24 Feb 2012 at 22:37 PM

This can be true that some banking women are as emotionless as a computer, between the sheets; but only when you compare them to wild farm girls from Laos.

In reality, with the office ladies, you need to take charge, and create a festival for all five senses...

1. Kiss every part of their body, especially neck and ears.
2. Refrain from masturbation for at least three days prior to the weekend, to ensure that the penis size is optimal.
3. Wear a small amount of Joop aftershave and/or Lynx deodorant, as these contain secret pheromones to complement your own.
4. Ensure that the aircon is not set too cool - just enough that you generate sweat on your chest and genitalia that she can lick off.

Hope this helps.:)
Posted by Trouser Press on Fri, 24 Feb 2012 at 20:47 PM
for me if a girl is a cutey ( those got a lovable look type ), i usually will show my love for her, my eyes just couldn't hide my feeling

if is a career woman, no matter how pretty she is, i always feel a distance, i dated ceo, the relationship just stagnant, cannot move forward, because she too business like, everything appointment and allocate time so precisely, that you lose a whole lot of spontaneous in relationship, it became mechanical ...
Posted by jameslee58 on Fri, 24 Feb 2012 at 20:36 PM

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