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Slammed for doing well
by Jennifer Dhanaraj

What happens to beauty queens after their reigns? We catch up with three former Miss S'pore Universes

1987

In 1987, she became the second Singaporean to place in the Top 10 in the Miss Universe pageant.

And Ms Marion Nicole Teo, then 19, came in ninth on home soil. But there were people who said she made it only because she was the host nation's representative.

Ms Teo, now 45, says: "I was just 19, so it was hard not to get upset. I still wasn't expecting to be in the Top 10.

"I recently saw a YouTube video of the announcement. Seeing it brought back so many memories.

"I wasn't very prepared for the pageant. I was such a tomboy and had never seen myself as a beauty queen."

Housewife Victoria Cruz, 54, says: "I remember watching the pageant on our small television set with my husband and young kids at home. We were very excited that the whole world was watching something happening in Singapore.

"I was very happy when Ms Teo was announced as a semi-finalist. It's so rare!

"But my husband, who's always cynical, told me that it was only because we were hosting. But I didn't care. She looked beautiful, so she deserved it."

Ms Teo felt added pressure when she found out that Singapore was the host.

"I knew I had to know more about my country. So the Singapore Tourism Board conducted a few sessions with loads of information," says Ms Teo, who also felt she needed to groom her tomboy self.

"I didn't think I had a chance against the other contestants, who were very beautiful and well-spoken."

And now, 26 years on, Ms Teo still meets strangers who tell her that she looks familiar to them.

"It's amusing when I meet people who tell me they were in school or serving national service when they saw me on TV," says Ms Teo, who set up an image consultancy The Leading Image in 1988.

"There are even students who tell me that their parents remember me."

The mother of two sons, age 16 and 18, was divorced in 2003.

The divorce took a toll on her, causing her to give up her business.

Subsequently, she met EQ Asia managing director Granville D'Souza, who helped her see how negativity was affecting her health and well-being.

Inspired, she joined D'Souza's company, which coaches people in emotional intelligence and resilience.

She is also the director at Peak Performers, where she conducts image training and other programmes.

Ms Teo says: "Merely teaching people about only their image was not fulfilling, so I ventured into areas like communication, interpersonal skills and customer service."

She is working on an autobiography, hoping that the book will have a positive effect on others.

"I hope to help others find happiness in their life," she says.


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