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Dear Justin,
If a girl is attracted to you, it is quite easy to get her contact information.
She may even ask you for yours first.
If you are getting along well, the number exchange should be an afterthought.
If a girl is not attracted to you, then the number doesn't matter. If she gives you a number at all, either she will give you a fake number, or she won't pick up or return your calls.
So the right question is: 'How do I get a girl attracted to me when we first meet?' For that, get my Dating 101 audio course, which will put you on the right track.
But let's say you've had a fun, 20-minute conversation. You think the girl is attracted to you, and you want to see her again. But you're not sure how to ask for her number.
It's best not to just blurt out, 'Can I have your number?'
Why? Because that makes you sound like all the players she has met who just want her for a fun romp and aren't interested in her as a person.
Instead, if you're having a good time talking with her, just be honest. You can say something like, 'Hey, you're fun to talk to. Let's hang out again some time.'
If she agrees, then say something like, 'Great, do you have your phone with you?' If she says yes, then say, 'Cool. Let's trade.'
You could also mention something you have in common, like your mutual interest in art galleries and how you both want to see the upcoming exhibition at the art museum.
Then you can say: 'Hey, let's go to that exhibition together!' If she agrees, you can say, 'I'll text you to confirm. Do you have your phone with you?' It's natural. It's fun. And it's genuine.
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