I MET S two years ago during a property renting service session. He is in his early 50s and we became good friends.

He asked about my two daughters and husband and I told him what led to our seperation. Last month, I had a bad accident and broke my hand. He called very often to check on my health and share gossip. He invited me to lunch and I obliged only once, during which we discussed his business plan.

I would like to know how to put a full stop to his constant calls, which have become very annoying. I’m in my late 40s and intend to retire in five years. By then, my daughters would have graduated and I have no intention of getting involved with any man again.

Full Stop

SIMPLY stop responding to his calls. If he manages to get through, tell him you are busy. Never agree to lunches or dinners.

But perhaps he has just been trying to be a good friend. Since you have only shared one lunch over a business plan, it may not have been an attempt at seduction.

Although you are separated and not interested in any relationships, it’s fine to share some time with a pal. Being in your late 40s does not mean the end of joyful living. You can still have a life and enjoy friendships and lunches with people who care.