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How to kiss a woman
by Skilldo

Ever been in a situation where you've been dating a girl and you reach a moment when you know you can kiss her, and didn't?

This could be due to two possiblities - one, the guy does not feel that the girl is adequately attracted to him and two, even if she feels attracted to him, he suddenly gets terrified and does not know how to make that moment happen.

So, the man waits and waits... and before he knows it, he is now friends with the girl and nothing more.

Let me now share some pointers to ensure that you can actually plant one on her.

Firstly, leave behind all thoughts of 'What ifs' when you're going in for the kiss.

"What if she pushes me away?", "What if she slaps me?", "What if she calls the police on me?"

Forget all that.

Think about it: You and your lady friend are on an exclusive date, building up your mutual attraction for each other, and heading to a nice, quiet spot.

She is adult enough to know what comes next.

When the moment  comes and you move in for the kiss, she is notgoing to cry: "Mummy, that boy kissed me!"

And if you're worried that she may just call the police on you, recall if you ever read reports such as "Man being jailed for kissing woman on a date"?

No? Good. Let's move on.

But before you begin to kiss her, lighten the mood by injecting some laughter first.

You may like to share a funny video clip on your phone with her, and this leaves you a breather space because you don't have to think of anything humorous to say. (Credit goes to my cousin for this nifty idea).

When the girl begins to giggle, tell her: "Hey, that laugh you just made, do it again."

She may or may not cooperate, and if she doesn't, and cheekily replies back: "What laugh?" or "How did I laugh?", not a problem.

Tease her by saying: "You forgot how it's done? No problem, I'll force it out of you."

Then, immediately tickle her in her sides.

She will giggle and shriek for a few seconds. At this point, stop for a brief moment... lock eyes with her. Then say this confidently: "Adorable."

You hold her chin and move in for the kiss.

Nothing complicated, right?

When you possess the masculine-confidence and know the tactics, going in for the first
kiss is not rocket science.

About the writer:

Skilldo is an 'ex-unhappy' Singaporean guy - who grew from being lonely,
dateless and single... into breaking out of it, and obtained a fulfilling
social life in meeting, dating and entering satisfying relationships with

He is the author of 'The Ultimate Singapore Girl-Getter'. A
locally-focused guide for Singapore men to approach, date and successfully
attract the type of women they want for themselves.

He maintains a website containing secrets and training for men at -

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