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No more drunken sex

Sober and smarter

After those two incidents, I made sure I’d never wind up having drunken sex again. I started drinking later in the night, so I could last longer.

And if a guest offered me a drink, I’d take slow sips instead of gulping it down. If you finish your drink faster, people tend to top it up.

I also constantly drank water to “recover” after each glass of alcohol. I also try not to mix my drinks, but it’s tough because my customers buy me different sorts of alcohol. I’ll just sip a little so it won’t kick in so fast.

Thanks to all this, I’ve never passed out or had drunken sexual encounters again.

These days, I get through the night on five glasses of alcohol, a big drop from when I started. Sure, I get high sometimes, but I’m always conscious.

I know what I’m doing. If I’ve reached my limit, I’ll say, “sorry guys, gotta go” and head home. Controlling your alcohol intake is all in the mind.

You shouldn’t give in to peer pressure.

I’m still in the party business. Despite how exhausting it is, I love my job and I love entertaining.

Some people think women who work in nightlife are cheap and that we sleep around. But in fact, because we’ve seen so much, we know how to protect ourselves. I know my limits now and how not to get into trouble.

I did regret sleeping with Max and Eric initially, but now, I don’t because those incidents helped me realise that I never want to do it again.

My advice for women who’ve had party sex: don’t waste your time and energy on regret. It’s more important to learn from your mistakes. Anyone can say that they regret having drunken sex, but then get plastered again at another party and repeat their mistake.

They don’t learn. If you really regret hooking up, make up your mind that you’re going to change something – for instance, watching the amount you drink when you’re partying.

I do believe you have control. Always be careful when you’re out having a good time. Watch your drinks, party with good friends and if you do hook up with someone, get protection.


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readers' comments
The way I view it:

Act drunk and do wat u like lor :p:D
Posted by baoxingtian on Mon, 24 Dec 2012 at 16:20 PM
One needs to get smart ....... Unless one deliberately allows things to happen.

Get drunk and get screwed - you ask for it.
Posted by bigstick on Mon, 24 Dec 2012 at 16:17 PM
Just like taking drugs ... every drug-addict also believe he / she have good control over it and wont end up addicted .... in the end, got controlled by it ... :p

Likewise .... alcohol is something people oftenly look down and under-estimate ... end up people over-estimate themselves when got into trouble, accidents, killings and etc etc .... :D

酒乃穿肠毒物 .... 酒能乱性 .... Say No to Alcohol .... :D :D
Posted by Small Fly on Mon, 24 Dec 2012 at 11:59 AM
You are paid for marketing job and not "selling" yourself. Bascially, you are "greed" to get "free" drink and there is also free gift.

Since you are a uni grad, your intel should be able to control it...get smart, don't drink and get drunk. No one could force you to drink, if you don't want to.
Posted by Gold_Sands on Mon, 24 Dec 2012 at 09:58 AM
A drunk man would say he is sober. A sober man would sometimes pretend to be drunk.
Posted by maipenrai on Sun, 23 Dec 2012 at 21:32 PM

A lack of control will let it take over your mind. :D
Posted by Los Liberatos on Sun, 23 Dec 2012 at 20:52 PM
Don't get drunk. Just be tipsy. Enjoy sex better.
Posted by YourNonoc on Sun, 23 Dec 2012 at 20:29 PM
The best thing to do is don't drink, don't get drunk & don't get stoopid.
Posted by chieftain on Sun, 23 Dec 2012 at 20:26 PM

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