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The best "state of mind" to have before approaching a lady
by Skilldo

I am no different from other men, I appreciate female beauties.

But I find that to 'appreciate' someone's beauty is only fleeting. To me, getting the beauty holds more joy for me.

And I'm sure you'll be happy to know that the chances of hitting off well with a woman and having the potential to develop the relationship further can be heightened by having mastery over your mind.

What does that mean?

Some date experts that I know of call it being 'desireless'.

To put it in words, when you're approaching a girl for the first time, the state of mind you should have is: The person you meet has to keep you interested and intrigued because you could easily move on to the next available person.

Having a strong mind also helps you to overcome the jitters when approaching the target.

Take note, this is not about being arrogant. This state reflects your strength of not craving for attention. In turn, you might come across as a person with strong personality (chics, dig that!)

Remember, be sure to have mental preparation before making those advances!


About the writer:

Skilldo is an 'ex-unhappy' Singaporean guy - who grew from being lonely, dateless and single... into breaking out of it, and obtained a fulfilling social life in meeting, dating and entering satisfying relationships with women.

He is the author of 'The Ultimate Singapore Girl-Getter'. A locally-focused guide for Singapore men to approach, date and successfully attract the type of women they want for themselves.

He maintains a website containing secrets and training for men at -


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